You glow differently when you’re not hating, hurting, bitter, miserable or messy.

I’m still full of love and that’s something that’ll never change. I can’t see myself walking around with a angry heart. I let my heart feel what needs to be felt and I keep it pushing. It’s always love this way.

Giving your partner alone time and space would solve so many issues. Y’all are just so obsessed with this culture of being up under somebody 24/7. Suffocation makes things expire at a faster rate. Relax and just be by yourself. It’s okay to maintain your individuality.

I’m over here starting to look like a villain because I’m falling out with everybody. Let me be clear when I say I’m only falling out with people because for years I was letting everything slide - but now I have boundaries. You don’t get to talk down to me. You don’t get to smile in my face & secretly despise me. You don’t get to throw jabs at me “innocently” through jokes anymore. You don’t get to use me. One thing about it, actions don’t lie. I was too busy tryna keep the peace and that’s where I disrespected MYSELF. I deserve the love I give to everyone around me.

I’m not mad, I’m DONE!!! That’s what people don’t understand, I’m not mad at anyone I’m just DONE. DONE dealing with situations that rob me of my peace. I’m DONE dealing with people that don’t love me as I love them, don’t try as hard as I try, don’t put in the effort that I put in. I’m just DONE. That’s it, once I see that you’re abusing what I bring to the table… friends, family, relationship I don’t care THATS IT! I’m not mad, I’m not angry, I’m just FINISHED!💯

Dating someone who speaks your love language, calms your nervous system, and says “You’re safe with me” when you lift the veil off your trauma, triggers, pain, hurt, toxicity, darkness, scars, insecurities, and show them who you really are >>>

Energy transfer is real. Stop letting people who are at war with themselves lower your vibration. It’s of the upmost importance that you protect your peace. Your happiness is essential. Your mental health should always be a priority over any friendship and or relationship.

It’s SAD how you really can’t address things as adults, misunderstandings, things that bother you or hurt you. We Can’t talk about it without cutting each other off, raising voices, disrespecting each other. We really losing family, friends, & relationships over Communication skills. Everything labeled as tripping, checking someone, nagging, arguing, back and forth. When really we just want to fix things so everything will be ALL GOOD! For some reason everybody want to play tough.

THINGS I’M NO LONGER APOLOGIZING FOR:

* My feelings

* Having boundaries

* Saying NO to something I’m not really interested in doing

* Not answering the phone when I can’t or don’t feel like it

* Taking a break

* Asking for clarity when I don’t understand

* How other’s behave

* Changing and becoming better

* Putting Myself first

* Not settling for less than I deserve

* Letting go when I need to

* Healing at my own pace